Nice Guys Stigma

Nice Guy Stigma: – Only GRANDMAS like Nice-Guys..

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Today: *The Nice Guy Stigma* Does it have to be?..

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Here’s an interesting question (when you answer it honestly)
Because it leads into a much GREATER issue that can and
will effect your ability to ‘close the deal’ with women.

*Have you ever been told you are a real nice guy?*

Lets face it, most men have been brought up to be
extra nice to women as a whole. I.e. You have
probably heard that you need to ‘compliment a girl
on her eyes, or hair or overall looks in general.

Or perhaps you were told over and over again that
a man has to be a perfect gentlemen and to make sure
you hold the door open, pull her chair out, let her
sit first and be absolutely certain YOU pay for the
meal, movie or some other mundane ‘date-idea’.

Any of these hitting home yet? Because, most men
do these things over and over again expecting to
one day get a different result.

But there is something VERY wrong with this behavior
when it comes to attracting women and having them
wanting YOU for more than ‘just another nice friend’.

Now its okay to be super nice to women. Don’t get
me wrong here entirely. It IS okay to be nice and
hear that you are a nice guy as well

What? – Sure!”..
[As long as it came from your mom, you are golden!
On the other hand, if it came from a particularly
hot girl you're interested in right now; then we
need to change that situation up - today.]

We may not be able to convince THIS girl into
thinking you are as cool and bad-ass as ‘Elvis’ but
we can certainly make this her think twice about you
‘now’ after reading further, before its too late.

There’s a time limit and a way to do it specifically.

Regarding ‘changing-her-mind’ about you after
meeting you already its a slim chance and its worth
a try if she’s a 10 on your scale; but only with women
that you have JUST met. (Moving forward though, its
best to read up and change a few habits and remove
the nice-guy-stigma altogether.

We can do that.
If you have been too NICE in order to get close to
a current girl you like now, then I’m afraid it will
be NEAR impossible to change her mind about you.

Why?
Because it falls into that category of ‘Trying to
Convince Her to Like You’. I’m not saying don’t try
at all if you already hung out a few times, but I am
saying; nine times out of ten, you will not succeed
in changing her first impression.

Okay, Lets Get On With It.
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Volume 2.

‘Nice-Guy’ Mistakes, Avoid Them at All Costs!

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Let’s jump right in shall we? One of the fatal mistakes
a man can make and must avoid to be ‘attractive to’
women is being too much of a “Nice Guy”.

The basic instinct of a woman by nature is that they
are attracted to men with confidence, strength, your
decisiveness, power, driven, risk, semi-confrontational
high energy, surprise, spontaneity, and mystery
and intrigue.

Women will crave the bad boy who is a little late most
the time over the nice guy who is on time, most of the
time.

She likes the guy that forgets to call, that rarely
calls, or doesn’t call. They prefer rugged looks over
clean cut conservatives.

No matter how strong a woman seems to be or act, they
want to feel protected by a strong counter part. It is
their undeniable nature to seek strength and protection
as a women and ‘mother-to-be’ at the most primordial
levels for this reason alone.

Nice guys for the most part, lack these necessary
traits whether they think so or not. For the physical
‘end’ of things; nice guys rarely cut the mustard.

Sure a good conversation may be had and perhaps
dinner and a movie, but nine times out of ten, she
is hungry and needs some entertainment.

Meanwhile she’ll probably be scoping out the other
single guys on their dates to see what’s out there.
Don’t be fooled. They are instinctively attracted to
bad boys. They can’t help it, you can not change it.

So What Are Nice Guys To Do?

We Change Our Game, Lets Break It Down:
To be clear, women do NOT prefer mean people.
So nice guys don’t despair. Mean people, go get help.

Nice guys can win over any women with out changing
who they really are. The biggest mistake we men make
is to fake who we ‘really’ are.

Why?
Number one, it’s wrong, number two it won’t stick
and number three everyone ends up f-d. The major key
to any kind of real success whether it be for the
purpose of attracting women, or gaining respect, or
the accumulation of wealth is to be yourself, be your
best self and hold true to it no matter what. When
we know who we are, we find out what we can do, and
its usually better than anyone else. Now That’s
attractive to everyone!

Changing our game is different. It means use the best
strategy to win the end goal. In this case to attract
women and keep them attracted to us while maintaining
practical control as a priority focus.

Bad-boys don’t need to focus on control. They don’t
know it all the time but they naturally have this
nonchalant demeanor that pretty much works on autopilot)
but believe me, ‘not-them’ they have their issues
that they work on too. Every type of man does.

A Strong and Practical Way to Solve any Problem is to
weigh the pros and cons of the Issues at Hand, Keep the
Good Stuff and Eliminate the Bad Stuff!

The List

1. Gift Giving and Giving and….giving and…

Let’s face it, nice guys love to give. There’s nothing
wrong with gifting women presents on their birthdays
or a major gift giving holiday. But there are
‘specific-rules’ regarding the type of gift
or even ‘if’ to gift, and these rules are
dependent on many essential facts.

Although the nice guy is strongly compelled to send a
gift on any occasion, including the made up reasons such
as:[Remember that time two-days-ago when you had your tooth
pulled and I held your hand and then we bla, bla, bla -
type of gift] You must fearlessly ‘hold-back’. The rules
of your game have changed. For now just don’t
give gifts.

Extreme Measures:
(Send a gift to yourself if you are jonzing – do
whatever it takes NOT TO send a gift.)

2. Giving ‘IN’ to Others, Often.

A Surefire way to lose a woman’s interest in a fraction
of a second is to display a lack in self confidence.

This is crucial to understand. There is a very fine line
between offering opening up a door for her at the restaurant
and then holding it open for the next 5 couples that are
behind you.

It may seem tempting to be nice and help the other ten
people, and you may think it is a great opportunity to show
her how benevolent you think you are. However the better
‘game-plan’ would be to cut the first couple off and pull
her through to the best table available.

The difference of impact to attraction ratio is off the
charts. She’ll see decisiveness, strength, control, and
leadership all in a fraction of a second. She’ll see
self confidence in you. Sexual tension will go OFF the
charts, and the attraction meter will spike in your
direction.

Make Sense?

3. Perfection.

If you are under the illusion of thinking a creased
jeans, extra starched tee shirts, and polished sneakers
are the way to go be warned: Women have an instinctive
need to groom men, and mold us into their style of hair
outfits, shoes, watches, underwear and proper ball-caps
for that matter.

If you are already perfect and not her style you have
two major points going against you from the get go.
It goes much deeper and much more complex to
the reasons why.

We’ll be discussing these in upcoming volumes. If
you are like some of the guys (in a hurry) -you can
get a copy of a newly written detailed step by step
system to attract women no matter what your current
circumstances are.

I’ve managed to talk to my publishers and cut a deal
with them to let 1300 copies go this week. BEFORE
it is actually released to the market…

So – if you want to just jump right in to all-if-it
now – I’ve arranged a 3 day trial for you..

Of course, its up to you. We also have a s-t load of
info coming your way right here.

(Some guys just like full-submersion – right away..)

One thing to consider now: We have about 213 copies
left at the time I write this email. Yesterday we had
a total of 15,717 joiners and most the copies FLEW
off the shelf. So I don’t know how long they’ll
be around..

In ‘there’, you’ll find:-
*17 More Ways Nice Guys Can Be Evil Do-Good-rs and
Still Have Game and Get Laid Being Who They are.*

Here’s that list of topics inside there.
-Apologies; Accepted or not accepted?
-Classic Nice Guy Phone Call Mistakes
-Asking instead of taking, what and when.
-Saying “Yes where you would normally say “No”.
-Sarcasm. If you are too nice, read this!
-The first sign of weakness, when to give in.
-Simple ways to disguise your inner nice guy
-Bring out the Bad Boy In You
-Walk this way
-Instant conversational Tactics for shy guys. Keep it up!
-Learn how not to linger. Get out on top.
-Act tough, walk tall, be brave, not small and she’ll call!
-Weakness that all men must conquer

And 37 More, Nice-Guy Turned Bad Boy Secrets Inside

http://tinyurl.com/yfpjryl

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Nice Guys Advantage Points: ‘Just Friends Secret Weapon’

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Okay, so let’s get clear on what works and what
does not work about being the Nice-Guy or the Bad-Boy
using short examples

BTW. If your ‘end game’ is to be her sex-less-friend
then you are on the right track. Keep being Mr Nice-Guy.
Don’t fake it, we’re not here to fake anything. Our
objective is to be ourselves, tweak what we got and
hone in on what works. Plus any women worth it can
smell a rat. And You’ll not only lose her as a friend
but you will lose the ability to tap into all the friends
with out benefits offer such as meeting all of her
friends, and their friends and so on.

In fact it is a very good idea to have a lot of friends
that are females in your life. Because when you ‘get-in’
as a friend with women who you are not sexually interested
in, then you are automatically tapped into the source.
(That is, as long as you are paying attention)

I do go much more into details on that subject at the
site an ebook. For now, we’ll stick with the goal and define
the Nice-Guy and why women are simply and always less
attractive to nice guy’s and do prefer bad boys. Finally
what we can do to create the perfect balance of good and
evil – the killer combination that attracts All women!

['EVIL' the word itself is meant in fun and sounds
familiar to most of
us. The reference is to the 'Bad-Boy']

What does a nice guy have to do in order to STOP
their own ‘Non-Evil’ ways?

Learn More Mr Nice Guy:

http://tinyurl.com/yfpjryl

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Next Up: Volume 3 of the 13 Crucial Mistakes to Avoid:

3. ‘TAKING ACTION” The What – When – Why – Who & Where!
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